PRESUPPOSITION 14: There is no failure, only unhelpful feedback.

People usually commit the mistake of not doing what they want because they define themselves by their past failures. When we either fail or succeed, it is only according to other people’s standards.

These human-made, authorial standards are artificial. The reality of “failures” is abstract, in nature there is no such thing as good or bad, right or wrong, we use them so we can measure our experience here. Even though these are human-made concepts, they tend to measure our reality, especially when comes from figures that we take as authoritarian. So remember, next time you fail… you didn’t, the results were only not what was expected, take it as feedback and keep on improving.

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