Posts by Manuel Matos
How to find a Website Designer near me?
Have you ever wondered: “How can I find a good website designer near me” ? Well, the answer is not that complicated because as soon as you make your search on Google, you will find thousands of options for web development around you and not only, but there are certain aspects that are good to…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION 17: Personal responsibility precedes personal empowerment.
Who likes responsabilities? I myself in my younger years used to do everything to avoid them, up to when I realise what I was missing, besides that, avoiding responsabilities can as well damaged those that we care for, but this is more for you then for your dear ones as we are all connected in…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION 16: All principles and procedures should increase awareness.
As you have seen so far over the previous presuppositions, NLP broadens your mind with challenges and new filters for a more wholesome way of thinking which directly impacts your life, actions and behaviours by offering new perspectives. The newly adopted procedures in life shouldn’t be only those who fit your narrative and life perspective,…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION 15: There is always an alternative course of action available.
We tend to get comfortable and make the same decisions over and over again, making new decisions and choices can consume a lot of energy, so we keep doing the same and getting the same. Now, there is always the opportunity to change directions, our attitudes, behaviors, habits, and even perspective about things. There is…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION 14: There is no failure, only unhelpful feedback.
People usually commit the mistake of not doing what they want because they define themselves by their past failures. When we either fail or succeed, it is only according to other people’s standards. These human-made, authorial standards are artificial. The reality of “failures” is abstract, in nature there is no such thing as good or…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION 13: The possibilities we have are restricted only by the strategies and beliefs we have.
This is another favorite of mine, please read the title again! It is common that we don’t have the most healthy beliefs or strategies in place as our lives progress, in order to reach where we want. This means that those many times we fail, do not reflect our capabilities but instead the strategies and…Read More
NLP PRESUPPOSITION 12: There are no incapable people, only unhelpful states.
This is an important one and we already start with the powerful Title that it has. In life we can either choose to get in panic and depressed due to the current situation we are in life, or, we can ask ourselves what is that we need to learn, or do, or think, to improve…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION 11: People have all the resources needed for change.
Alright, this is a short one but quite nice: People have all they need for the change they want or need! Change is always only one step, one decision away and we all have ‘free will’. Our goal as NLP practitioners is to help our clients to become more aware about their potential, help and…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION #10: Accept all people, influence their behaviour when needed.
Unconditional acceptance is not as easy as it seems, for some is easier to give than others, especially if they are close or relatives. Now, unconditional acceptance for those with who we are not directly related might be even harder. For example, some parent struggle to accept their children for who they are unconditionally. And…Read More
PRESUPPOSITION #9: People make the best choice they can at the time.
Every single one of us has the chance to take many different options every moment of our lives, but people can be very judgmental of those who choose to engage or behave in different ways they would. A good example is that you may have the chance to make an investment, and for you, that…Read More